10 SIGNS THAT YOU SHOULD DUMP HIM

Most women who love their partners ,find it no big a deal to overlook a few of their flaws. But are they really worth it? When do you know that it is time to say good bye and part ways? Here are some sure shot signs that tell you that its high time that you dump him.

 

 

 

1. Do you always feel that he gives you second priority over almost anything? It is possible that you are just being jealous and feel that way. But if you truly believe that he takes you for granted and places his interests ahead of your, it's a clear sign that you he doesn't care about you. So, don't stick on to him hoping that one day he will understand.
 
2. Is your boyfriend not reliable? Does he cancel plans with you at the last minute? If so, let him know that  he is being disrespectful of your needs and concerns and that you are not OK with him blowing you off all the  time. If he can't compromise in some way, it may be that he's just simply not boyfriend/relationship material. He needs to be able to balance his work, family and relationship time, and not by canceling and/or rearranging plans with you all the time.
 
3. Do you feel that your love is not fully reciprocated? That your love is not returned in full? That you love and care for him a lot lot more than he does? Then it is time that you get out of there. You deserve to have the kind of love where you feel cherished and valued. Do yourself a favor and go find someone who is worthy of you.
 
4. You were once a cheerful, free-spirited woman but now you are very unhappy. You can't expect every day of your relationship to be movie-perfect. But if every day feels like a torture and all you want to do is curl up into a ball and cry or lie on the couch with a large bag of potato chips, then you need to get out of the relationship as soon as possible.
 
5. RESPECT for each other is very important in any relationship. Does he respect you? Sometimes this is a very tricky question as it is not always obvious. Respect is not just about acknowledging a person's success or choices. It is also about valuing your feelings. If he doesn't care about how his actions affect  your feelings, then it is time to move on to some one who does.
 
6. Does he not spend enough time with you? Spending time together is essentialiy for bonding and keeping the relationship alive. If your boyfriend is busy working on something for some time maybe a year (or two if you can bear with it), it is an entirely different situation. But if he is free and still making excuses to not find time for you, throw him away.  Remember, if a guy really wants to be with you, he will make it happen, no matter what.
 
7. Some things are just very obvious. If your man is abusive and hits you intentionally, whether it is once in a month or daily, whatever his reason might be, just leave. If he has any pscycological issues, it's his problem. Let him deal with it. This is exactly the place where you stop trying to be the understanding, supportive girl friend.
 
8. Do you feel trapped in a relationship? Feeling trapped is a sign that something is wrong. A lot of people go through this, but are scared to do anything about it. The thought of leaving your boyfriend, whom you may be deeply in love with, is scary and hard to take in. You have to confront the issue and talk to your partner about it. But, if nothing works out, there is no point in continuing with the relationship.
 
9. You argue all the time. You have to sit him down and solve your indifferences. Sure, the makeup sex may be great. But, when all you do is argue day and night, it is time you take some time and analyse where this relationship is going. Such a relationship can be quite tiring in the long run. 
 
10. You just dont't love him anymore. Sometimes, you just cannot help it. The love just disappears. Don't keep quiet and play along because you feel guilty and donot wish to hurt his feelings. He deserves to know the truth. Talk to him calmly anf tell him how you feel. Once you are done with it, you will be a much happier person.