How do you know if he is the right one?

Confused as to whether he is the right one? Ask yourself these questions and find out.

1.Does he consider himself lucky to be with you?

If your guy looks into your eyes and tells you that he is lucky to have found you, it shows that he appreciates you and is greatful to have you around. He feels fortunate to have you in his life and will find ways to let you know that you are adored. Make sure that he is not 'settling' for you.

2.When he looks at you, can you see the passion in his eyes?

When he looks at you, do you get the chills? Does he look at you in a way that says, ''At this moment nothing matters, but you.'' Men are passionate creatures and they are good at expressing it. So, if your relationship is missing that spark, something is seriosly wrong.

3.Has he seen you when you are at your worst?

Beyond bad makeup and a messy hair, has he seen you at the height of your bitchiness? You know what we are talking about here. Your darkest side. That brutal cocktail of anger, frustration, depression and hatred, at its highest level. If he has seen it all and can still handle it then kudos. You might have found your man.

 4. Are both of you willing to compromise on each others behalf?

Good relationships require good compromises. The question is, are you two willing to compromise on each other's behalf? Or is one of you always giving in to the other person's demands?

5. Is he emotionally supportive? 

Does your man listen to you? Is he there for you when you need him? Does he appreciate your ideas, however small they may be? If he lends an ear to all your problems and tells you that he is there for you no matter what, it shows that he genuinly cares.

6. Can you be yourself with him around?

If a man tries to change you, it shows that he doesnot appreciate you for who you are. Such a person will always find flaws in you, no matter what you do. But if you can be yourself around him, it means that he accepts you for who you are with your strengths and weekness.

7. Can you trust him with a secret?

Your partner should be some one whom you can open up to. No matter what. Some one who will not judge you for who you are. If you told him a deep, intimate secret, do you think he would be able to take it to the grave? Or will he discuss it with his friends?

8. Does he respect you?

It is very important that your man respects you for what you are and acknowledges your needs. If he dismisses your opinion, it shows that he doesn't care as to what you think. Your man doesnot have to always agree with all your opinions. But he has to be paatient enough to listen to them and consider them before he makes a choice.

9. Do you like being around him?

The most important of all. If you were not out in a fancy restaurant, a movie theatre or a beautiful hotel on a romantic weekend getaway, would you still want to be with him? Do you both enjoy being around each other and doing nothing. If you do then it could mean that he is a keeper.