How To Make Up With Your Man After A Fight

Every relationship has its ups and downs. It is completly upto you to decide how to handle the situation. You can either blame your partner for what he has done and wait for him to come apologise or you could be the bigger person and take responsibility for your mistakes. Here are a few things that you may consider after you and your partner has had a fight.

 Donot let your ego get the better of you.  Just remember how much you love him.  Once you have cooled down, go back to him, kiss him on the cheek and tell him that you are sorry. Own up to your mistakes. He will appreciate this gesture and  will be willing to listen to your side of the argument.  If at any point you are thinking that it was entirely his fault, just remember that it takes two people to  argue.

Once both your heads have cooled and you are thinking clearly, sit down and patiently discuss the matter. Chances are that, most of the time, you fight for the smallest of the things that don't really matter. Sort out your problems instead of leaving it unresolved. Don't escape from the situation by trying to pretend that it never happened. If your partner doesnot wish to talk about it, sit him down and explain to him why it is important that you open up to each other.

When you are trying to solve a problem with your partner, donot bring in details of previous fights.  Most women have a tendency to do this. This can only result in both of you accusing each other of your actions in the past, giving way to another huge fight.

 Again, dont ever apologise just for the sake of it. Show him that you genuinly care and are sorry for what happened.  Do something special to let him know that you love him. For example, you  could make him breakfast in bed or get him a copy of a CD or DVD by his favorite band or musician. It will make you both happy and all the bitterness of the fight will be soon forgotten.

 If you have said nasty hurtful things to him, make a promise to yourself that you will not repeat it again no matter what. Reassure yourself about the strength of your relationship.

If you find yourself fighting way too often, take a break away from your normal routine. Plan a romantic getaway with your partner and remind yourself how much you love each other.